Transform Your Life + Relationships Today
I demonstrate to people how they can change without too much effort and how they can change anything that doesn’t seem to be working for them in their lives. I help them identify where they feel stuck, to connect with their inner knowing to empower them to achieve their potential, to be successful, and transform their lives and relationships, discovering a much easier way of living.
24 years ago my marriage was headed for the rocks on a speedboat. We had 3 young children and I saw them being damaged + distraught by the relationship conflict they were surrounded in. I wanted better for them, I wanted better for me and I wanted better for my husband. I was so angry, jealous, depressed and resentful because I could not understand why I was not treated with the same or better respect than the staff, others in the community and clients.
I was desperately trying to do everything right, be a great mum and wife, yet everything I did seemed to create more accusations, anger and disrespect. I felt really unsupported and unloved – it seemed that everyone else and work came before me and the kids, and I was like a clock on the wall, just to be glanced at occasionally, used and then unnoticed. The weight piled on and I felt worse, and I really started to believe that I was unlovable and I was the problem – it was all my fault!
After anger management and counselling, there was a slight improvement, however it was not going to do what I wanted, give me back my happiness, respect + love – there was no organisation who understood or even seemed to have a solution…so I took my issue into my own hands and set out to create a solution – by trial + error – even if it killed me, I was going to find a way to get to the bottom of this situation.
I have found powerful ways to transform the misery and desolation that feeling like a victim creates in your life to creating more joy, empowerment, self-respect, self-assertiveness and self-assurance in my life. It inspires me to share these tools, strategies and knowledge with you, so you can create transformation, more ease and potential in your own life.
My life was a hellish struggle with seeming insurmountable obstacles, multiple past and present upsets, unfairness’s and traumas. Now I have found a place where I love to be, a place of peace, contentment, of deep and sustainable relaxation, tolerance and respect towards myself and others, self-confidence and feelings of empowerment as I achieve my potential and continue to create a life I never believed possible.
Throughout these years, I got more excited, because I realized that if I could turn my life around, then others could too – especially if they had the tools! And I was creating an awesome set of tools that were working for me, so I wanted to share them with you. I know how vital support is through this process, and how important it is to help each person find their unique solution, as well as learn to be adaptable, as their process unfolds – especially with health issues or relationship challenges.
I gathered tools and skills, looked deep within, learnt, made mistakes, kept trying and found some simple, yet awesome keys to unlock the mystery of conflict, bullying and relationship issues.
I really got to understand the hidden keys to these issues
We are still together – and have a closer, more fun + open relationship than I ever dreamed possible. I did not have his support, as he did not recognise there was even an issue, yet I did not give up on myself or our kids, and while I did not know what the outcome would be, I did not give up on him either.
I now have a deep peace, and I am loved and respected, I have a huge appreciation for my life, for our life together and tools to work with any issue that presents itself – for we are both human!
I have discovered strengths and weaknesses I never knew about myself, and I now want to share them with others, wanting a better life, relationship and example for their children.
You have all your answers inside of you – I – like the detective can help you find them, as we journey this path together.
I hold a key to the door that takes you out of the prison of disempowerment to find your answers. Each person journey is totally unique, and they will travel it in a way that is best for them in their particular situation –
I specialise in helping you unfold your journey in the easiest and simplest way to get you the best results and achieve the life you want, that you can only dream of at this time. You break free from your prison to a calmness, peace and to relationships you never dreamed possible.
I use the tools, understandings and knowledge from Psychophysiology, BodyTalk, Chinese Medicine Principles, Accunect, Aromatherapy, First Light Flower Essences and my nursing background, along with my personal journey and that of clients over the years.
First and foremost the most vital part of any relationship is YOU. This is where we start – just where you are today. Our goal is to help you achieve your relationship dreams in the best way possible for you.
Our focus is not on the past – although we take that into account to learn and grow from – we focus on today and everything we need to move forward and upward.
Each of you is totally unique, you have and live in unique situations and circumstances so while there are generalised practices, you will be tailor them for your potential and what works best for you.
I will be your cheerleader + guide as you transform your life + relationships.